Huuuu....nampak lazat or horror? 
The presentation not that nice, but (not to impress myself)..it taste good. Love the sticky chocolate topping. 
Whether or not you were together for two weeks, six months, or four years, breakups hurt. And they can be really hard to get over. If you listen to the wise words of Charlotte on Sex and the City, it takes half the time you were together to get over him. Here are a few more wise words to help make your next breakup a little easier.
Don't Talk to Him
The most crucial rule in breaking up is to not talk to the person you're breaking up with. Even if you think you can handle it and still get over the person, you can't. Don't kid yourself; feelings will get hurt. Take some time off, get over him, and maybe someday in the future you'll be friends. Until then, lick your wounds and recover any way you'd like; whether that be partying hard, staying in bed for days with pints of ice cream, or spending absurd amounts of money on clothes you don't need. No one will say a thing; we all heal in our own, weird ways.
Snap Out of It
Remember how things, like stupid songs and movies and that little spot in the park that you two went to on your first date used to be "yours"? Well, they're not anymore. Don't make a connection to platonic objects when there isn't one. Remind yourself that you like that spot in the park because of the good view, not because of anyone connected to it. There's no point losing more than you have to from a breakup, so don't get all sappy on yourself.
Reconnect with Your Friends
No matter how much you say you're not going to be that girl who gives up her friends for her boyfriend; everyone gives up a little of their time to spend with their guy. Well, now is the time to make it up to them (and, you could use the girl talk). So, go out and have fun; grab your best wing woman, and remember how much fun being single really is.
Take Some Time For Yourself
Amidst all of this trying not to talk to him, hanging out with friends, partying more and/or eating lots and lots of ice cream-you need to remember to sit back and actually work through your feelings. Understand why things went south, and why you're better off this way. And in no time you'll be back to your old self, and what's-his-name will be a thing of the past.
It's All About Rewards
And finally, do all of the little things that make you happy every day. Yep, being single means thinking about you, you, you. So, go and take that extra time after work and buy yourself that little ring you've been obsessing over. Or take a long walk and meet a friend for cupcakes because well, you can. Have fun spoiling yourself, because you deserve it after....wait, what? I'm forgetting already.
Cinta itu ikhlas, ia datang tanpa diundang, ia pergi tanpa dipaksa
oops: Half of the time?! may need another 5 years then,,.. =/
Few months ago I was shocked by the news from my ex-coursemate, Siti Khadijah a.k.a Mek (I gave her that nickname =p), that she’s getting married on 31st May 2009. I was looking forward to this wedding since she was one of my good mates in Shah Alam. Her hometown is in Besut, Terengganu…so far meh….nevermind, 2 months before the big day my frens & I planned the wedding trip by tagging our course-mates (in Facebook) on Mek’s picture. Most of everyone responded, however only 7 of us joined the trip;
Topex, Nadiah, Uw, Epi, Akem, K sue & me.
I started my journey to Shah Alam on Friday evening, at 6pm & arrived near 11 at Nadiah’s house after sending my brother to his fren’s home. I didn’t get enough sleep that night since I was soooo tired driving (I’d never drive long distance before). Nadiah & me was sooo lazy to woke up that morning, at 4.00am. We snoozed ourselves till 4.15. We had promised to gather the rest of the team at 4.45 at K Sue’s house in Sek 7, we arrived there almost 5. Okayla…15 mins late only..haha…
We started our journey at 5.30am, our first stop was, Nadiah’s house (she left the camera at home..hiya!). Then after an hour drive we stopped at Genting Sempah (Genting di Sempah as what Akem called it) for our Subuh’s prayer & breakfast.
We continued our journey to Epi’s house in Kuantan to fetch him. Thanks to Epi’s moms who cook delicious food, ketupat sotong & mee condong. They taste yummy!
At 10.30am we continued our journey. It was the first day of school holidays, the roads packed with cars & lorries heading to Pantai Timur. We stopped for lunch at McD’s in Kerteh (cam kat tempat lain xde…hahaha). After that we just stopped for fuel refills until we reached Besut’s town almost 6pm (13 hours on the road!!!! Hiya..penat!).
At Besut’s town, we waited for Mek’s husband, Najib & he guided us to our chalet, Damai Beach Resort. We asked Najib for directions to Mek’s house;
Najib : 20 km dari sini. Umah kawe dekat’ sini, esok pegi denge kawe pun buleh
Uw (saying out loud to me & Nadiah): Die cakap esok bley pegi dengan kawan dia skali!
Nadiah & me was laughing so hard (if you know what he meant). After that, Najib decided to take us to Mek’s house. Only Epi, Uw & Akem followed him. Nadiah, Topex, K sue & me was sooo tired & we rested in our rooms.
At night, we went to Chef’s Restaurant nearby for dinner. We ordered ikan bakar & other side dishes. The food was okay I think, hence everything on the plate lesap because everyone was hungry. After that we went straight back to our chalet & have nice sleep.
At 7.30am,”Don’t say I’m sorry again, it didn’t give u the right….” my phone rang, I opened my eyes & saw Mek’s name on the screen
“Helo, Assalamualaikum” Mek’s voice woke me up.
“Hey Mek,” I sounded sleepy
“Koran tido lagi ke?”
“Tido la penat…13 jam tau”
“Pukul brape nak mari ni?”
“Pukul 9 lebih kut..mandi2 & siap trus pegi la. Ko tengah buat ape?”
“Aku baru nak iron baju”
“Ko tau x..smlam kitorang baru nak mintak pinjam iron ko. Tapi Nadiah cakap, mesti ko kate ko nak gune iron baju pagi nanti”
“Hahahahaha..”she laughed non-stop as always.
“Okayla..nanti kami sampai”
“Okay jmpa nanti” I hang-up.
It’s not even 8 yet. So, Nadiah, K Sue & me went to the beach to take fresh air. Dissapointedly….the beach is not that nice.The beach is not clean since it is not a tourist attraction area. Nevermind, the view (apart from the beach) was beautiful. The sea, the islands nearby, the sky, the fisherman’s boat & the birds in the sky.
After everyone woke up & packed everything, we went straight to Mek’s house. It was easy to find her house since there were posters of the bride & grooms in front of the house. As we arrived, we stood in front of the gate & view the posters.
“Touch up abes, lain gila muka,” Akem commented the poster on the right gate.
Everyone was looking at Akem
“Woi, tu kakak dia la…ada 2 kenduri, kakak dia punya petang. Ni dia gambar dia,” everyone laughed at Akem..hahaha…
Mek’s sister (another bride of the day), welcomed us in. The girls went straight to Mek’s room. Her mak andam was putting make-up on her. While waiting for her to dressed up, the ‘tuan rumah’ invited us to makan first. We were served ‘Gulai Kawah’, fried chicken, really sweeeet ubi keledek & sirap (Epi called it as air oren =p). When everyone was full, we went into the house and take lots of pictures with the bride…
When our mission was accomplished (to attend Mek’s wedding), it was time for us to go back to Shah Alam. We couldn’t wait for her husband, since its already noon & we had looong way to go. On our way back we stopped at few places.
We arrived Shah Alam about 11.00pm. After that, I went to fetch my brothers at Sek 7 & went straight home to Parit Buntar (arrived at 4.00 am & wake up at 5.40 to go to work! PENAT!)
Thanks to:
Mama for lending me money (gaji pending laaaa)
Mak Epi for the delicious ketupat sotong & mee condong
Mek & family for inviting us
The cars "En City & Cik Viva" for the ride...tanpa kamu kami xkemana laa..hehe...
